Hey, Stupid Cupid, Stop Picking' on Me!
Call me unromantic. Call me boringly down-to-earth. Call me cold, indifferent or dull, but will someone please tell me what's Cupid with a bow and arrow, or a semi-automatic pistol (if we want to update him to the modern day efficient equivalent of the dart in the heart, as above) got to do with “Roses are red,” etc, etc?
I must admit that I've never subscribed much to St Valentine's day, whether Cupid, or roses, or chocolates. Furthermore, as I've said before on this platform, I find it hard to climb aboard the concept that some priest (or arguably bishop, depending upon the data source), who lost his head at the direction of his emperor, should be the reason why we should reveal, review or repeat our vows of never ending love to our present partners or potential partners of choice. I mean just what has a churchman got to do with chocolates, tulips and cherubs with darts or rounds of ammo?
And why are we so fascinated by the same churchman who refused to support mad Claudius II's belief that the battle-fodder force elements of his Roman army couldn't perform their slaughtering duties efficiently if their heads were filled with languid and sensually alluring day dreams of their bedtime partners? Perhaps my following ditty, which I have revived to kill off all this false and pretentious Val's Day passion, will serve to confuse you further?
Ode to the Invalidity of St Val’s Day
The priest we call St Valentine was doubtless very good,
The patron saint of lovers, fits, and those who nurture bees,
But pray do tell me why the fuss, and please don’t think me rude,
If sending flowers, cards or chocolates fills me with unease.
You see my Scottish heritage has made me rather frugle,
My better half will verify I only spend when needed,
And so I turned for evidence to ‘old mate’ Dr Google,
To help me formulate why Feb 14 should not be heeded.
It seems when Emperor Claudius II, gave out a new command,
That Roman army soldiers should abstain from getting wed,
Our Father Val continued giving them a helping hand,
By tying the knot and licensing their entry into bed.
For this our Claud was not amused and locked Val in the slammer,
To stop his fornicating fighting force from being mislead,
Perhaps St Val thought Claude’s reaction somewhat of a clamour,
Until Claude had him beaten, then, to boot, cut off his head.
Now just what has this story got to do with valid-dity,
And why we celebrate poor Val when February comes?
The only ones who benefit from Val’s death, more’s the pity,
Are those who sell us chocs and flowers, and all their retail chums.
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Seriously, guys and gals … WTF?
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The author of the above, Ken Boddie, besides being a sometime poet and occasional writer, is an enthusiastic photographer, rarely leisure-travelling without his Canon, and loves to interact with other like-minded people with diverse interests.
Ken's three day work week (part time commitment) as a consulting engineer allows him to follow his photography interests, and to plan trips to an ever increasing list of countries and places of scenic beauty and cultural diversity.
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Ken Boddie
2 years ago #16
Nice thought, @John Rylance , but I have it on good authority from old mate, Dr Google, that no amount of the Aussie waste product, Vegemite, will help in breaking down the ensuing natural gases and suphide party in the gut. I guess there are some foods to enjoy and others to keep upwind of during the post mastication process.
John Rylance
2 years ago #15
Oops the letter m is always reluctant to appear in its place when I type. Christmas it should be.
John Rylance
2 years ago #14
A surprise hit for our Christ as dinner was a dish of Brussel sprouts with a Marmite dressing. Both things either to love or hate. Together they seem to nullify each others distinctive tastes
Perhaps vegemite might help the sprouts to be more palatable, might counteract the Greenhouses gases.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #13
Two of my least favourite members of the Brassicaceae family deserve to be massacred, @John Rylance , namely Brussels sprouts and cabbage. I’ve no doubt that both are responsible for elevated levels of CO2 and natural gasses in our atmosphere and should be banned on climate change grounds. 💨
Jerry Fletcher
2 years ago #12
😝🙃😄
John Rylance
2 years ago #11
@Fay Vietmeier has just reposted her valentines post from a year ago.
It reminded me of my comment on it,
Namely the Indian Resturant that offered a dish for the day. Namely St Valentines day Brassica.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #10
Good to hear from you again, Fatima. All I can say, @🐝 Fatima G. Williams , is:
Roses are red,
Some tulips black,
Cupid's gone AWOL,
He's not coming back.
🏹 💔
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
2 years ago #9
😂😂 Lovely post as always @Ken Boddie Thanks for the giggles. Valentine's day and the whole concept of gifts is overrated to me. Even during the holiday season. I wish there was no need to put a label on it and it came naturally with no obligations to the persons involved. The pressure is not healthy! They say Valentine's day is the most depressed day of all days for many single people. When i googled it said :About 34 percent of single people had the same response. However, 20 percent of married respondents said they “don't care” about the holiday. That was higher than any other group. On the other hand, 19 percent of the single respondents said Valentine's Day made them sad and lonely.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #8
Looks like we’re both on the same page, @Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #7
Plastic roses, @Robert Cormack ? A brilliant idea! I trust you hide them away for the next year then dust them off before proffering them again, in the true spirit of Scots frugality?
Robert Cormack
2 years ago #6
Well, Ken, there's only one explanation, and I'm sure it has nothing to do with St. Valentine. None of us wants to incur the wrath (I'm not exaggerating here) of our spouses, mostly because we already incur enough wrath, and adding to it because we decided to “freedom convoy” St. Valentines only makes it worse. If Valentine's Day occurred in the warmer months, we might feel stronger, but we're stuck in our houses, Ken, and I for one can only take so many skunk eyes. I'm beaten, in other words. I just hope Wendy never figures out the worst truth of all: I've been giving her plastic roses.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #5
#5 Better confine your traditions to adding a “pinch of salt”, @Jerry Fletcher , otherwise you might get charged with ass-salt and battery. 🦀
Jerry Fletcher
2 years ago #4
Now there's a tradition I could get into! My motto would be “Any bottom in a pinch” And so it goes.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #3
Luckily, @Renée 🐝 Cormier , my wife is used to my penny pinching when it comes to 14 Feb. Just as well, because ass pinching is more likely to cost me big time.
Ken Boddie
2 years ago #2
Sounds like old mate, Claude, had double Val trouble, @John Rylance , if your facts are accurate. I hope he validated and verified the evidence in advance of evicting the heads of both Vals from their corpora sacerdotalia. 🪓 🩸🩸🪓
John Rylance
2 years ago #1
According to my Internet research Claudius had two people named Valentine executed on Feb 14th, in different years.